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  • Old House New Stuff New World

    I have always liked restoration hardware and shows that restore things. Recently my wife has restored and redone a lot of parts of our home and we are all reaping the benefits of joy.
    <img src=”https://cre8nnov8.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/image-e1462387691799.jpeg&#8221; alt=”bed set” width=”660″ />
    <em>Our story of our journey to success is a long one. I write in my column just a little about it here along with why we enjoyed fixing up our current home.</em>
    I think it was about age 20 that I started to see the financial journey most people take in a lifetime. It’s pretty simple for most. As my dad used to tell me: when you are young you will be paid a little for hard work and when you are older you will be paid a lot for doing a little work. I have certainly found this to be true.
    Another thing I remember is feeling that an AA (2 year) or even a BA (4 year) degree really isn’t worth much and it’s only those who have connections or family or a trust fund who ever really “make it.” Since then, I learned differently. Those degrees are stepping stones that catapult you into your chance at life. They are also gatekeepers keeping the riff raff out.

    <blockquote class=”pull alignright”>Randy Pausch before he died of cancer said publicly that the brick walls in life are not there to tell us no but to show ourselves and others how much we want something.</blockquote>

    People told me all kinds of weird things when I was young and starting out. “Bill Clinton will make college free soon so wait and have a hit off this bong buddy!” Other people told me it would be impossible to graduate based on budget cuts. Really? Looks like I dodged those. These and many other statements like them are excuses used by real people I’ve encountered all throughout my life, especially in my late teens and twenties.
    I’ve gained so much from college and for hanging in there with a good work ethic. When my wife and I first got together in 2002, we were poooooor by many people’s estimation, certainly by ours now. I’m not proud of it but sometimes to pay that last bill, I had to go down and get what is called a “Pay Day Loan.” These are horrendous for a young family. We had one 4 year old at the time and I wish I never had to sink that low as to get these pay day loans but I did. Like I said, I’m not proud of it.

    <blockquote class=”pull alignleft”>For a poor young couple in charge of a family, loans were a means to an end, a dangerous one at that.</blockquote>

    Now, in the 14th year since then, we have been homeowners for 7 years and we have 3 kids ages: 8, 11, and 17. We would never need to get a payday loan, we have savings, 2 retirement plans with the state, I work as a teacher with 17 years experience and my wife is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist making close to what I make after all the years. We aren’t hurtin’. Next month we are taking our first trip to Hawaii as a family and we’re tickled to death.
    In the past month, my wife decided to get us a new bedroom set, bathroom sets, various things at the container store, and basically, what feels to me to be a brand new home. We have talked a lot about getting a new home but after these minor adjustments and additions of new furnishings, we’ve done it all for much cheaper. Now, we can let the equity accrue and enjoy our house.

    <blockquote>I usually don’t give advice on home stuff but I would say getting things fixed, replaced, renovated, and restored has as much of a payoff as getting a brand new home.</blockquote>

    Think about places like the place where you sleep, the place where you eat, the place where you are entertained, and the place where you take a shower and get refreshed. If you’re not happy where you are, fixing up these places will definitely give you a boost. Move on and up in the right time but remember just a little effort can give you a boost like you’ve been waiting for all your life.
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    I’m linking to: <a href=”https://dailypost.wordpress.com/prompts/hope/”>Daily Post</a>

  • Old House New Stuff New World

    I have always liked restoration hardware and shows that restore things. Recently my wife has restored and redone a lot of parts of our home and we are all reaping the benefits of joy.
    <img src=”https://cre8nnov8.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/image-e1462387691799.jpeg&#8221; alt=”bed set” width=”660″ />
    <em>Our story of our journey to success is a long one. I write in my column just a little about it here along with why we enjoyed fixing up our current home.</em>
    I think it was about age 20 that I started to see the financial journey most people take in a lifetime. It’s pretty simple for most. As my dad used to tell me: when you are young you will be paid a little for hard work and when you are older you will be paid a lot for doing a little work. I have certainly found this to be true.
    Another thing I remember is feeling that an AA (2 year) or even a BA (4 year) degree really isn’t worth much and it’s only those who have connections or family or a trust fund who ever really “make it.” Since then, I learned differently. Those degrees are stepping stones that catapult you into your chance at life. They are also gatekeepers keeping the riff raff out.

    <blockquote class=”pull alignright”>Randy Pausch before he died of cancer said publicly that the brick walls in life are not there to tell us no but to show ourselves and others how much we want something.</blockquote>

    People told me all kinds of weird things when I was young and starting out. “Bill Clinton will make college free soon so wait and have a hit off this bong buddy!” Other people told me it would be impossible to graduate based on budget cuts. Really? Looks like I dodged those. These and many other statements like them are excuses used by real people I’ve encountered all throughout my life, especially in my late teens and twenties.
    I’ve gained so much from college and for hanging in there with a good work ethic. When my wife and I first got together in 2002, we were poooooor by many people’s estimation, certainly by ours now. I’m not proud of it but sometimes to pay that last bill, I had to go down and get what is called a “Pay Day Loan.” These are horrendous for a young family. We had one 4 year old at the time and I wish I never had to sink that low as to get these pay day loans but I did. Like I said, I’m not proud of it.

    <blockquote class=”pull alignleft”>For a poor young couple in charge of a family, loans were a means to an end, a dangerous one at that.</blockquote>

    Now, in the 14th year since then, we have been homeowners for 7 years and we have 3 kids ages: 8, 11, and 17. We would never need to get a payday loan, we have savings, 2 retirement plans with the state, I work as a teacher with 17 years experience and my wife is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist making close to what I make after all the years. We aren’t hurtin’. Next month we are taking our first trip to Hawaii as a family and we’re tickled to death.
    In the past month, my wife decided to get us a new bedroom set, bathroom sets, various things at the container store, and basically, what feels to me to be a brand new home. We have talked a lot about getting a new home but after these minor adjustments and additions of new furnishings, we’ve done it all for much cheaper. Now, we can let the equity accrue and enjoy our house.

    <blockquote>I usually don’t give advice on home stuff but I would say getting things fixed, replaced, renovated, and restored has as much of a payoff as getting a brand new home.</blockquote>

    Think about places like the place where you sleep, the place where you eat, the place where you are entertained, and the place where you take a shower and get refreshed. If you’re not happy where you are, fixing up these places will definitely give you a boost. Move on and up in the right time but remember just a little effort can give you a boost like you’ve been waiting for all your life.
    <hr />
    I’m linking to: <a href=”https://dailypost.wordpress.com/prompts/hope/”>Daily Post</a>

  • The Loft

    “The people you love, they’re the only ones who can hurt you.” -Anne Morris

    According the “The Loft” movie, it’s every man’s dream to have a cave or a loft where he can do whatever he wants, including cheating on his wife (or girlfriend). I say no thanks, even in a movie. The idea of cheating is only somewhat interesting to me. “The Loft” explores it. Then again, maybe the movie is meant to show us the consequences of such actions.

    The Loft (2014)
    Cast
    Karl Urban

    as Vincent Stevens

    James Marsden

    as Chris Vanowen

    Wentworth Miller

    as Luke Seacord

    Directed by
    Erik Van Looy
    Written by
    Bart De Pauw (based upon the film written by), Wesley Strick (screenplay)
    Other Info

    Mystery, Romance, Thriller
    Rated R
    1h 48min

    My favorite aspect of this movie isn’t the subject matter but rather the mystery woven through. In the first scenes we see a body fall out of the loft onto a car. The viewer is given clues but the key to the mystery about that body takes a real sleuth.

    For me, this was almost a good tv movie but it shouldn’t be a cinema film. It had all the trappings of an Zach Galafinakis/Bradley Cooper drunken comedy ony there aren’t any jokes and we certainly aren’t meant to shake our fists and say “Hell yeah, have another shot.”

    While I’m on that subject of men partying, I want to share with you I feel so disenfranchised from films like this. I don’t have friends who are pouring vodka down my throat and hooking me up with centerfolds. Why do we see this so much in movies like this?

    The concept here is that a group of men share the rent on a secret loft penthouse style apartment. The understanding is that they can cheat on their significant other without being caught. Well, there is a murder and seemingly another death that may be suicide (the falling body onto the car). You get a lot of clues, some are obvious the others more cryptic. Nonetheless, it is a well woven mystery and I would recommend it on that basis alone. The characters, their lines, the story besides the mystery, unbelievable for me anyway. I don’t know what kind of dudes you run with but these ‘aint my peeps. If you liked it, let me know why? Like I said, it was an alright mystery.

  • Solace

    Anthony Hopkins plays John Clancy, a psychic Doctor. If I were psychic and could see people’s death path when I touched them, I think I would pass on being a doctor and work in a toll booth. It turns out the serial killer cop “Joe” and Clancy seek is also very psychic and quite a few steps of both of them as they try to track him down.

    Solace (2015)
    Cast
    Anthony Hopkins

    as John Clancy
    Colin Farrell as Charles Ambrose
    Jeffrey Dean Morgan as Agent Joe Merriweather
    Abbie Cornish as Agent Katherine Cowles

    Directed by

    Afonso Poyart

    Written by

    Ted Griffin
    Sean Bailey

    Mystery, Thriller
    Rated R for violence
    1h 32min

    There isn’t much new here for the genre. It feels like a run-of-the-mill serial killer movie. Anthony Hopkins does a few Hannibal Lecter clone scenes. One example is when he describe Abbie Cornish’s child to her without knowing anything about her. She plays Joe’s partner on the force. Clarisse anyone?

    The killer, played by Collin Farrell, doesn’t show up until past midway. When he does, he is docile and tame. In my opinion, he was a very poor casting choice. His impetus or killing is supposed to be benevolent but it’s really not. Yes, it’s that hard to divine. We have a dead victim in a bloody bath (Dexter anyone?) and a script that borrows from every serial killer more cliche but it’s “ok,” the more isn’t terrible. I hated seeing talents wasted on such nonsensical writing though.

    The ending is very predictable. I read on Wikipedia that this movie was meant to be a sequel to se7en. That might explain why the borrowed so much rom that and movies like it.

    I enjoyed the actors but everything else is a fail for me. I took three stars away possibly to warn people this movie doesn’t merit the actors in it. There is some action between the nonsense so if you have nothing else to watch, I might recommend it.

  • Midnight Cowboy

    I almost feel like if I don’t give this film 5 stars, bad movie karma will visit me. It is mentioned in so many reviews I read as well as in interviews with directors and actors. It was released with an “X” rating which is laughable by our standards today. I think you see one female breast in about three short, clothed sex scenes. It later received an R rating.

    This film is old, it came out the same year I was born.

    Oldies are often goodies though and “Midnight Cowboy,” while gritty, is a drama treat with award winning actors that make the story come alive.

    I love movies that show us the naked city. From the playbills stapled and frayed on side streets to the honking of taxicabs. People are trying to survive and we get to travel with the camera, taking it all in. Of course, we can pause at any time or come back to revisit another time. People in the real city can’t. Maybe that’s why we like watching what they will do, often out of desperation.

    Just seeing John Voight and Dustin Hoffman in their prime is very entertaining.

    These guys were showing us acting like university drama instructors here in their mid twenties. John Voight has always struck me as one dimensional and stupid. That actually works for his character here. Hoffman is a con man, a sick one at that. We get a slice on 1969 in this very well made and incredibly acted film. I recommend it.

    Title: Midnight Cowboy
    Number of times I’ve seen it: 1
    Genre: Drama
    MPAA Rating: R
    Year: 1969
    Director: John Schlesinger, (“Marathon Man”)
    Top Billed Cast: Dustin Hoffman, Jon Voight, Sylvia Miles

    Brief Synopsis: Man moves to the big city and makes an unlikely friend.

  • Dear Zachary: A Letter to a Son About His Father

    Title: Dear Zachary: A Letter to a Son About His Father
    Genre: Documentary, Crime, Drama
    MPAA Rating: R
    Year: 2008
    Director: Kurt Kuenne
    Top Billed Cast: N/A
    Brief Synopsis: The disappearance of a 28 year old man reveals dark truths. The documentary maker made this for his son and complications arose.
    My Word to the Wise: Fans of Dateline and 48 Hours will likely enjoy this film. It’s a gripping true story told in news footage and interviews. It will likely infuriate as well as entertain. It is a masterful telling of a story with an ending you’d never expect. As a documentary it was too long for me. They do a lot of filler scenes that repeat content. For that it lost a couple stars.